Love Relationship Themes

If we pause and contemplate on each relations we had as adults, we will figure out that each one has a central issue about it. Each theme holds a different suffering to go through. I am sure there are more themes but at least what I am aware of are:

Begging Theme
I love you, I will do anything for you
I love you, please stay
I love you, I will never love again like I love you
I love you, I will take good care of you
I love you, please don't go

Hurt Theme
I love you but please stop doing XXX it hurts me
I love you but please I am not feeling well of doing XXX
I love you could we please not do this any more
I love you but I can't take it any more
I love you but please give me space

Shame Theme
I love you but I can't stay with you
I love you but my belief & values don't allow me to be with you
I love you but what we are doing is wrong
I love you but my family, friends, neighbors will start to talk
I love you but I feel ashamed of us
I love you but my guilt is larger than my love

I Don't Care Theme
I love you but I am not interested in whatever you are interested in
I love you but can I watch TV now
I love you but I can't join you at your parents dinner
I love you but I have work to do
I love you but sorry I did not get you anything for your birthday

Sexless Theme
I love you but don't kiss me
I love you but I don't feel like making love tonight
I love you but could you just hug me
I love you but I don't know why I can not touch you

Some could be totally unlucky to experience two themes in the same relations; then their agony & hurt is doubled. But most cases will be a mix of one of the above themes & Love theme.
Any how, each theme teach us a lesson and gives us more insight of what we want in life.


p.s.
I left the Love theme till then then because it is my day dream one :-)

Love Theme
I love you.... I love you too
I care about you..... I care more
I want you.... I can't take my hands off you
I want to go out with my friends... I want to visit my parents
I am coming home early... my my what a romantic dinner
I want to join you @ your parents dinner... I want to be with you when you pick your sister
I want to leave my Job... I will help you finding a better one
I miss you... I will pick you up
I will pick the laundry... I will cook
I will massage your back.... could you please do my head too
Where will we travel this year?....em em China
Dance with me? .... I melt in your arms
You make me laugh.. you bring me joy
What do you think is a proper reaction... I guess you'll have to apologize
What is your new fantasy? .... To be a :-) to do :-)

I guess my definition of  Love is a tango of friendship filled with passion & lived with romantic moments.

I go back to my day dream.

My Bucket List

My bucket list is humble... nothing much... Whom am I kidding :-)

Things I want to do before I die:

• Trek the Inca Trail, Peru
• Swim with the dolphins again & again...
  
• Trek the Great Wall of China
• Ride the trans-Siberian railway across Asia
• Climb Mt Kilimanjaro, Tanzania
• Trek to Everest base camp, Nepal
• Bungee Jump
• Take a zero gravity flight (at Florida's Kennedy Space Centre)
• Ride roller coasters (tallest & longest!)
• Spend summer solstice above the Arctic Circle (Alaska, Canada)
• Try canopying
• Skydiving
• Taking a hot air balloon ride
• Stay in an ice hotel
• Raft the Colorado river, Grand Canyon, US
• Go to Galapagos Islands
• Watching Iguazu Falls

Things I wish to learn before I die

• Photography
• Scuba diving
• Dancing Dabkeh & some of latino dances

Hurray
It is a living organic list, which means it will defiantly grow.

I hope you dance

No matter when or how many times I hear this song I become silent. Silent for what it inspires..

• Not to take anything or granted - I hope you never lose your sense of wonder. May you never take one single breath for granted

• To be humble - I hope you still feel small When you stand by the ocean

• Hope - Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens. When you come close to selling out Reconsider. And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance I hope you dance

• To live life fully - Never settle for the path of least resistance . Wants to look back on their youth and wonder Where those years have gone.

There is nothing more I could wish for anyone but to take chances and & get the most out of his/her life. Don't settle for less than what you want.

I hope you dance … Dance